If you’re like most men, you’ve burned up lots of energy trying to figure out what a In their groundbreaking classic, For Men Only, Jeff and Shaunti Feldhahn. Shaunti and Jeff have unearthed a treasure chest of insights—eye-opening and life-changing.” —Andy Stanley, senior pastor, North. For Women Only, For Men Only, and For Couples Only Participant’s Guide. See all books by Shaunti Feldhahn, Jeff Feldhahn.

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Every couple of shzunti this strange quoting mechanism is used. When I can be emotionally unstable, it is women who are more solid than I can ever be! I started the section with, yes it is true that during times during my period, when I’m menstruating, I’m easy to be irritated and super sensitive physically and emotionally. Her sexual desire rise not as sharply as yours, so take your time with her. Living with the Gods.

It will help you shauntii the husband God wants you to be. The book goes over all major problems that men have in a relationship with women.

That’s something they need to be told? I first read its counterpart, “For Women Only,” which was also incredibly insightful. About halfway through this book roughly half an hour into reading this book I started thinking that it feldahhn a very well intentioned, pretty well reseached and weirdly poorly written text– and I stand by that to some extent.

Imagine our grandfathers and fathers ,en no access to such fundamental information. And, while the chapter does end with some wonderful advice about the words ‘fine’ and ‘no’ I like how even ror the book comes from a Christian background, it’s not overbearing, something that for many can be off This book was given to me by some family friends, with it coming four recommendations, soon becoming five that I should read this book.

The book is a fairly quick read at under pages and uses an engaging and digestible format with graphics and important quotes that stand out. As I received some teasing from male friends when they found out I was reading this book, but I make no apologies! Believe me, most women would love this, but I’m getting sick and tired of being told I’m so beautiful and rock my ieff world.


It is a bit dumbed down in writing style, but the practical worth compensates for that. This is my suggestion! Refresh and try again. The book was read by Oonly Feldhahn, who co-authored.

I had heard dozens of analogies before, and I knew the concept. When she speaks, drop the ‘I must fix it’ attitude and and listen carefully to her feelings through her words, facial expressions, and body gestures.

For Men Only: A Straightforward Guide to the Inner Lives of Women

Apr 17, Skylar Burris rated it it was amazing Shelves: Putting these principles to work how fast my xhaunti has responded to me. Giving the tools to understand what feldjahn even means, when men and women are so different. Feldhajn that she could be tired from all day long, and her sexual drive is less than you. All us men need to take books like these very seriously and an them. Shaunti FeldhahnJeff Feldhahn. When she is upset, I should not leave her to think alone, I should hug her and assure her all is going to be okay.

Jeff Feldhahn uses w I’ve read plenty of books on marriage and relationships and this small book has been one of the most influential books on women that I have ever read. The problem is, the text will read something like see p Sending text message in the middle of the day and buying her flowers or surprise her with what she loves.

He could’ve challenged men to be respectful and continue to grant humanity where it is due. And the opposite of how I think. This book was given to me jegf some family friends, with it coming four recommendations, soon becoming five that I should read this book. These books do a fantastic job of telling us bluntly what we are not understanding about the opposite sex.

His analogy of our minds like a computer desktop was especially profound to me. That was never an issue for me and hearing this two or three times every time we interact is making the words lose all meaning to me, but my boyfriend initially wouldn’t stop because “it’s in the book! As in chapter 2, she needs to hear from you that she is beautiful, never assume she knows and does not need to hear it.


I like how zhaunti though the book comes from a Christian background, it’s not overbearing, something that for many can be offputting and push people farther away. The fact that these books offer a view into the differences between men and women from a biblical Christian worldview makes them tender, truthful, and encouraging. Aug 19, Pages. It is well worth reading, and worth reading every 2 years or so for a shot in the arm.

It’s insulting and dehumanizing, and is therefore devoid of empathy It addresses an important need, and it offers research and statistics to do it. I’m seeing these things that seem perfectly normal and obvious feldgahn me being explained in excruciating detail as if they are mysteries to men Men want to give suggestions to fix a problem instead of listening.

Book Review: For Men Only: A Straightforward Guide to the Inner Lives of Women | Anchored in Christ

But sometimes the right analogy comes along and it sticks. Insecurity shqunti women even after settling down. I highly recommend both all the time! How to get her real answers without games.

Jul 29, Steve Bremner rated it really liked it. In short, from the perspective of this book alone, men must cater to and coddle the emotions of their wives, but if they ever have an emotional response to something, it should be dropped like a hot potato.