Praise. Praise for How We Love “How We Love has the capacity to change not only your marriage but every relationship that’s important in your life.”. How We Love has ratings and 99 reviews. In How We Love, relationship experts Milan and Kay Yerkovich draw on the powerful tool of attachment theory. How We Love. Milan and Kay Yerkovich explain why the ways you and your spouse relate to each other go back to before you even met. Drawing on the.

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There are many ideas that I am continuing to think about and would recommend it to anyone looking to understand how to better connect with their loved ones. I give this book four stars for editing, as it could have been more concise.

The Yerkovich’s make a convincing argument not that I needed convincing but certainly others might that in order to go forward in the future we must first visit, but not live, ae the past. Dec 06, Kurt rated it it was amazing.

I do encourage you to go online f This book was eye-opening and life-changing for me. It really got in the way of the messages to be conveyed.

How We Love: Discover Your Love Style, Enhance Your Marriage

From there, they go into some teaching on how to truly connect with your spouse using what they call the comfort circle. Though I am not generally a fan of the Christian “self-help” genre, I did find this book very insightful regarding the way our imprints of attachment within our family of origin affect the way we yerkocich to our spouse and our spouse likewise to us.

This book was recommended to me by a friend who is also a marriage and family therapist. Crying kids really annoy me; if they were my kid, it would stop. When people hurt me I write them off and end the relationship. Jul 27, Laura rated it it was amazing. I thought the examples and stories they gave helped flesh out the different ways in which the love styles manifest themselves.


Are you struggling under a load of resentment? Once we can understand how we le One of the most insightful books I have ever read. I expected this to be like most of the other marriage books, all about communication and “love languages”.

How We Love, Expanded Edition

This book is a key to a world of insight into intimacy only you can bring to your relationships. When looking for a marriage partner, they feel something missing with someone who does not have soul words to express the many loce and thoughts inside.

They give us a peek into their personal journey and the countless people they have helped move from young hurts toward more meaningful intimate attachment. Open Preview See a Problem?

In How We Love, relationship experts Milan and Kay Yerkovich help you pinpoint the reason your marriage is struggling—and they reveal exactly what you can do about it. To see what your friends thought of this book, please sign up. The five styles are: LitFlash The eBooks you want at the lowest prices. The information in this book opened me up to a whole, new level of understanding about myself, peop If you’re married or hope to be someday, this is a must read!!

The book I purchased has a workbook included, and I found much of this to be very helpful as well. Lists with This Book.

The second part of the book teaches you and your spouse how to communicate with each other while incorporating your own personal love styles, that were identified in the first part of the book. This book has been tremendous in getting me to consider others hearts and feelings, even my children.

Understanding our love styles and taking down the walls created by our imprints are skills that can help every marriage. I can see how what I’ve learned will help me develop healthier relationships in general and hopefully, some day, that most intimate relationship.

The authors also gave some terrifically helpful guidelines on how to be a better listener. Worth a read for anyone, whether or not aware of their own tendencies, in order to understand and learn to prioritize other people in their lives. Previously a pastoral counselor for The Ww for Individual and Family Therapy, Milan now teaches seminars on relationships and intimacy and is cofound Milan Yerkovich is a weekly talk show host on the New Life Live!


Take what you can, leave the rest, but that is pretty common in texts like this. No, this is not the same as the 5 love languages as taught by Dr Gary Chapman. Recommended by a cousin, this could be a relationship changing book. We have to learn to notice and be aware of our internal experiences, to search our hearts and find words for what is inside us. We are still using the workbook materials for reflection and dialogue together.

Single In a relationship Married. Every married couple should read this book. And because it uerkovich family of origin love styles, it is helpful for growing in those relationships, too.

I like to show my love by doing tasks. If you want to yeroovich and enrich your marriage, as well as grow personally, I strongly encourage you to read and digest this material.

Anger and frustration are usually the only emotions I feel. The authors don’t do enough in parts to promote part 4.

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While these styles were adaptive as kids they prevent close fulfilling relationships as an adult. Overall, the book was enjoyable and highly recommended. This one kind of counseled you out of a problem, rather than helping you prevent one